The dignity of women in Islam
In the midst of the darkness that enveloped the earth, divine revelation was echoed in the vast deserts of Arabia with a fresh, noble, and universal message to humanity. Emphasizing this noble and natural concept, the Qur'an says:
"O mankind, fear your Lord, who created
you from one soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from both of them
many men and women." (Qur'an 4: 1).
"It
is He who created you from one soul and created from it its mate that he might
dwell in security with her.”(Qur'an 7:189)
[He
is] Creator of the heavens and the earth. He has made for you from yourselves,
mates, and among the cattle, mates; (Qur'an 42:11)
"Allah
has created spouses from among you and created sons and grandsons for you from
your spouses, and gave you provision from good things." (Qur'an 16:72)
The contribution of Islam in establishing the dignity of women
Islam
recognizes the proper status of women in all aspects of life. Islam has played
a leading role in establishing the dignity of women. The status of women in
Islam as mothers, daughters, and wives is unmatched by any other religion. The
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, ‘the paradise of the
child is under the feet of the mother.’ Islam emphasizes the proper fulfillment
of the wife's right over the husband in the conjugal life. The hadith says, ‘It
is wrong to refuse to pay the debts of others in order to be able. For this,
her punishment and misfortune are inevitable.
It
is narrated from Hazrat Abdullah Ibn Masood (R) that on the Day of
Resurrection, one by one every man and woman will be presented before all the
people of Hashr in captivity and it will be said that this is the son of such
and such or the daughter of such and such Do it. At that time the disenfranchised
woman will be happy that she was deprived of her rights to her father, brother, and husband. He will collect his dues from them. Then he recited this verse,
‘On that day they will have no kinship and will not question one another.’ [Surah Muminun, verse 101].
He
further said that on that day Allah, the Merciful, will forgive whomever He
wills, but He will not forgive the debts of other people. Then Allah will place
that woman or man in front of the people of Hashr and tell the claimants, come
forward to understand your debt. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) said: Allah will command the angels to give to each creditor
according to his due from his good deeds. Thus, after giving to all the
creditors, if even a small amount of good deeds remains, and if he proves to be
the beloved of Allah in terms of overall deeds, then his remaining good deeds
will be increased so that he may enter Paradise.
Eventually, he will be taken to Paradise. And if by all accounts he is found guilty and has
no good deeds left, the angels will pray, ‘O Allah! All its virtues are gone
but there are still many creditors. 'Allah will then say,' Combine the sins of
the creditors with its sins and throw it in hell. 'Islam has also emphasized upholding the dignity of women in social life. In the Qur'an, Allah declares,
"Those who slander chaste, innocent women are cursed in this world and in
the Hereafter, and for them is severe punishment." Surah An-Noor, verse
23. In the above verse, Allah has clearly declared that those who accuse a
chaste woman of adultery and fornication are cursed in this world and in the
hereafter, and severe punishment awaits them. He must be punished in the world.
Women as a child and an adolescent in Islam
Despite
the social recognition of female infanticide among some Arab tribes, the Qur'an
forbade the practice and considered it a crime like any other.
“And
when baby girls, buried alive, are asked. For what crime they were put to death”,
[Qur'an 81:8-9].
Criticizing
the attitude of such parents who reject their daughters, the Qur'an says:
And
when one of them is informed of the birth of a female, his face becomes dark,
and he suppresses grief. With shame does he hide from his people
because of the bad news he has had? Should he keep it in humiliation or bury it
in the ground? Unquestionably, evil is what they decide. [Qur'an 16: 58-59]
Far
from saving the girl's life, so that she does not fall victim to injustice and
discrimination in the future, Islam wants kind and fair treatment for her.
Among the sayings of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) in this regard
are as follows:
Whoever
has a daughter and does not bury her alive, does not disgrace her, and does not
bestow favors on her son, Allah will admit him to Paradise. (Ibn Humble, No.
1957).
The
man who will support the two daughters until they are mature, he and I will
come this way on the Day of Judgment (and he gestured with his two fingers
together).
Women as a wife in Islam
The
Qur'an clearly indicates that marriage divides society into two parts and that
its purpose, in addition to sustaining human life, is mental well-being and
spiritual harmony. It is based on love and compassion.
The
following are some of the most impressive verses in the Qur'an about marriage.
"And
of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find
tranquility in them, and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed that
are signs for people who give thought". (Qur'an 30:2 1).
According
to Islamic law, women cannot be forced into marriage without their consent.
"Women
have rights similar to those of men equitably, although men have a degree of responsibility above them." (Qur'an 2:228).
Another
place Qur’an says-
Believers!
It is not lawful for you to become heirs to women against their will. It is not
lawful that you should put constraint upon them that you may take away anything
of what you have given them; (you may not put constraint upon them) unless they
are guilty of brazenly immoral conduct. Live with your wives in a good manner.
If you dislike them in any manner, it may be that you dislike something in
which Allah has placed much good for you. [Qur'an 4: 19]
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Prophet
Muhammad (saw) said:
The
best of you is the best to his family and I am the best among you to my family.
Women as a mother in Islam
Islam
considered kindness to parents next to the worship of God. Allah says in
Qur’an-
"And
we have commanded people to ˹honour˺ their parents. Their mothers bore them
through hardship upon hardship, and their weaning takes two years. So be
grateful to me and your parents. To Me is the final return." (Qur'an
31:14)
"For
your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And honor your parents.
If one or both of them reach old age in your care, never say to them ˹even˺
‘ugh,’ nor yell at them. Rather, address them respectfully." (Qur'an
17:23).
A
man came to Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and asked:
“O
Messenger of God, who among the people is the most worthy of my good company?
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, your mother. The man said then who else:
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, your mother. The man said then who else:
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, your mother. The man asked, Then who
else? Only then did the Prophet (peace be upon him) say, your father”.
(Al-Bukhari and Muslim).
A
famous saying of The Prophet is "Paradise is at the feet of mothers."
(In Al'Nisa'I, Ibn Majah, Ahmad).
Conclusion
In terms of religious obligations, such as daily prayers, fasting, poor needs, and pilgrimage, women are not different from men. In some cases, indeed, a woman has some advantages over a man. For example, a woman is exempted from daily prayers and fasting during her menstrual period and forty days after childbirth. She is also exempted from fasting if there is any threat to her health or her baby during her pregnancy and when she is breastfeeding. If fasting is obligatory (in the month of Ramadan), she can fulfill the fasts whenever she can. He does not have to make up the missed prayers for any of the above reasons. Although women can and do go to the mosque on the days of the Prophet and then attendance and Friday prayers are optional for them when it is obligatory for men (Friday).
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